Pleasure is self-interested. It’s about you: what you want, what you need, and how to get more of it. It’s everything we’re taught is too frivolous to pursue seriously as adults. And yet when we experience genuine arousal, desire, and pleasure, those are the moments when we feel most connected and alive. We filmed Sex, Love & goop to help anyone create more of those moments. To help you explore—and connect you to what you need and want—we’ve collected some of the most beautiful and functional tools we know.